Most people don't want to be part of the process. They just want to be part of the outcome.
But the process is where you figure out who's worth being part of that outcome.
aaaaand if you STILL weren't able to follow the first one... try this. If all that doesn't work you may need someone to help you. Which we will! Contact a Cat in game
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